墓碑上的“面子工程”

  和西方人相比,中国更爱面子。面子就是在自我个体以外的人的形象,在世讲面子,去世亦然要展露面子。于是,陵园墓碑就成了人们最后显露面子的地方。
  中国人好在墓碑上做文章,喜欢把墓碑做得越大越好,觉得墓碑做的越大不仅逝者有面子,生者更有面子,生怕别人不知道他们家的辉煌,也变相了展现了当代“孝儿孝孙。”也有在在自己逝世之前为自己早早的立好了规模又大又辉煌的墓碑,上面还自己撰写了自己的辉煌生平。或许我们可以以国外的名人政治家为楷模,一生取得了无数的成就,然而逝世后人们纪念的只是一块凸显墓主谦虚的性格的小小墓碑。
  墓碑其实就是当今社会现象的一种折射。我希望人们多看看墓碑,不要认为墓碑是阴邪之物,多认识墓碑可以清楚自己该干什么甚至于整个社会应该做什么。

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face project on the tombstone(Summary:Compared with Westerners, China loves face more. Face is the image of a person outside the self-individual, speaking in the world, and showing his face in the future. Thus, the cemetery tombstone became the place where people finally revealed their faces. The Chinese are good at making a fuss on the tombstone. I like to make the tombstone bigger and better. I think the tombstone is made.)

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